“Some of the most amazing people in the world were not perfect; they were scarred by suffering, hardships, losses and imperfections. But, when they recovered, they were stronger, wiser, and more loving and compassionate. Your life is going to get better in the proper time, and you will be stronger and more at peace than ever before.”— Bryant McGill
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If we approach the hardships in our life with a great attitude and vulnerability to allow others around us inside our lives to help us in our times of need. Having friends to support you can help the way we handle ourselves through these challenges and can make a difference during those times. We all need help when times get hard. It's not what I went to school for, but I love helping others and inspiring people through my words. Thank you for supporting me. ♥
”Love and kindness are the very basis of society. If we lose these positive emotions, society will face tremendous difficulties.”
My mum
To Mom, You are Strong. The strongest women I know! Always there knowing what it means to love someone else more than yourself. I am very happy, grateful you are mine! I love you always my mom! 5/10/14
“Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.” ~ Ashley Smith ~ Love is beautiful if you know that it is there. It might not seem like love is there in the moment but love is the one thing we can count on!
When the storm comes know that if you love behind you, you will get through it!
When life does not make sense
This week has been kind of hard for me. Love can be hard sometimes, especially when you think about what if I love someone more than they love me. And this week I’ve try not to think like that but sometimes people don’t need to show it, you just know that what you are doing for them really helps them. Someone who is very important to me has been going through so much lately and I have been messaging this person. Just to be there for them, I want them to know how much I love them and I have been loving doing it daily, but sometimes I get selfish and I wish that I could get more time with them and wanting them to be at my events when it doesn’t happen I feel hurt by this person not coming. I have forgotten how much just being able to show so much how much they are loved can mean so much that they I will ever know. Knowing that I may be helping them with love makes me happy. Because really loving and supporting someone who is going through a lot is the best way to show the person that I am beside them through this season. I have to remember that I can be there without seeing them and that is what I want.
Happiness is a state of mind. You can immediately be happy whenever you want just by imagining a beautiful moment and changing your physiology as if it’s happening right now. You can try it and do it whenever you want.
Live long and prosper!
~Admin
”Where there is love there is life.” Life could not be full without love, just think about it what do you have if love is not in your life. You could have everything that money can get but if you are lonely you can never be truly happy! Love is like a light shining through all of us.
The next three days
Hey everyone, I just wanted to let you know, for the next few days I’m not going to be posting because I have to use a special keyboard to write but my room is getting new flooring and I won’t be able to use it. I will try to post on facebook.
Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.. Ephesians 5;1, 2. Love is everything! But there are people who have not felt love, I think it’s sad that something so simple can seem like its the hardest feeling to get, sometimes it is just because you are different. But we all have differences so why does that stop us from sharing love with everyone?
Guidelines
- This is a place for anyone who needs to talk about the hardships and the happiest times.
- To feel love.
- What is love to you? We can talk about it, and what love means .
- A place where differences are welcome!
- Love is necessary to live a happy life!
The computer
I have cerebral palsy which means it is hard for me to do a lot on my own, I have to have help to do anything physical. So it can be hard to get a job or even just do things on my own or without out the computer, I know that sounds crazy but I could not do what I love to do which is helping others. Sometimes needing help all the time can be hard and make you feel very needing, and it doesn’t seem you can do much when you want to be able to have something that you can do without help. When I realized that I could write on the computer it made a big difference in my life. I feel as if I could do so much more on the computer then I could before I knew I could write with it. I know now that I can do something that means so much to me and I can make a difference in people’s lifes with my writing.
A life of love is?
We all have been at a place in our lifes where something so simple is the feeling that is the hardest to know what it is like. That feeling would be love! It is both easy and hard to give or receive . When we are dealing with so much hard things; you can feel alone as if no one will understand the feelings you have. But if the people who you are closest to are there with you it seems easier, they might not understand everything you are going through but the support and love can mean so much. The best way to help someone is just by loving them.
What is love? #Livealifeoflovewithinyourself
I am going to do something different! Love is my project it’s going to be what this blog will be about. I have always wanted to find a way to help others, I thought that I wanted to work with people who have depression but now I know that every issue that I hold close to my heart all have one thing in common is that love is needed! I know I have been changing my goal for this blog around so much. But I think I have finally know that everything can be done through love. I would like to have this website be a network for anyone to come here write to me about anything you are having a hard time with, or if you just want to get inspired, or even just feel loved! I will also be writing about my life and the hard things I have to go through, also the great things!
”Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning to dance in the rain.”
Life is what you make it. You could be going through a hard time, but there is always something that will make this time seem that much easier.
“Any darkness that surrounds you can only inspire the light to be that much brighter when it comes. Just hang on for that beautiful sunrise you so desperately deserve.”—Robert Clancy
the best gift
What is your favorite gift?
Think of every gift you have ever gotten
a gift does not have to be something,
it could be a person.
Friendship is the best gift!
Especially when you know it’s meant to be
and that friendship will always be!
Real strength is not giving up when everything in your life is hard. It is knowing that the day will come when the sun will shine on you. What you go through to have a life you have always dreamed about, life is hard but when you have the right support you can get through so much more than trying to do everything on your own. “Strength doesn’t come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn’t.
”Love is always a demonstration – not just a set of words or a feeling.”
We never know the way things are are will change, we should always make sure that the people who we love know how much they mean to us. ”You love harder, laugh louder, live richer, and become more together than you could ever be by yourself.” Don’t take life for granter.
“Taking care of yourself is the most powerful way to begin to take care of others.” — Bryant McGill. There have been times when we think it is bad to put ourselves first but we want to help others we need to love who we are first. Having time to ourselves is a big key to our health, taking a day for yourself is necessary for you to be able to help others.
One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life. That word is Love. – Sophocles
I know this can happen, I believe that if you have love you can get through anything! Knowing that there is someone who is behind you can make all the difference.
Trying something new
I have been thinking about what I want to have this online community service, I wish that this part wasn’t so hard to get an idea and just stick with it. I wish that all the issues I want to make a difference in, could somehow be under the same topic but they are not. The only thing that they have in common is love. Everything we go through could be helped with love and knowing that you are supported. There is so much hurt and loneliness in the world, that I just want to fix it all by inspiring and just loving those I can! All of my life I have wanted to make a difference in people’s lifes more than anything else I could do. It seems like loving others should come first but the way we live its hard sometimes to put others first, we try so hard to fit in that if there is something that we do different we get the looks like its weird to be who you are. But aren’t we all different? I know I can’t help everyone but I know there is a way to serve people who are going through a hard time and don’t know where to turn. I want to have this be a place where people can message me or write on the blog/facebook page when you just need someone to talk to. If you want you can also email me at zvargues6@gmail.com.
”Share you light and SMILE today. You never know how much that may mean to someone. – Kriz”
”Friendship isn’t about who you’ve known the longest. It’s about who walked into your life, said “I’m here for you” and proved it.” This is true friendship, it is hard to find, but when you find a friend like that . Never let them go, and always let them know how much you care and them!
”Be thankful for what you have. You have no idea how many people would love to have what you’ve got.’
”Positivity is a choice. Is the glass half empty or half full? YOU get to make the call.”
”Work like you don’t need money, love like you’ve never been hurt, and dance like no one’s watching. -Unknown.”
I wish I could help everyone who is going through a hard time, the people who feel alone; having the feeling that nobody cares for you does not help any. You might think that being strong means dealing with the hard times on your own, you are wrong. Life can be hard, but if you have support you can get through most things I’m not saying that the hard times won’t come, but the right support will make a difference in the times when you can’t do it alone. I think depression can begin from being on your own so much; thinking that people in your life don’t want to help you or they don’t understand what it is that is getting you down. When we all go through times when love is needed more, if you think about it you will see how much love can get you through the hardest times. Just think about how you feel when someone texts you just to let you know that you are loved so much; it can change your whole day.
Friendship is so important, family we know will always be by your side but having a friend who is always there is just as important.
What in your life keeps you going?
Who helps you get through the hard times?
The sun lights up the sky and brings us happiness,
but what or who helps you when you don’t think you can handle the hard times?
We all need to have something or someone who helps us get through the hard times!
Love is necessary for healing the brokenness we all feel at some point in life.
”Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all day. H Jackson Brown Jr”
All you need.
To anyone who is going through a hard time right now, love will be able to get you through the hardships life will throw you.
”Being love-filled and beautiful is almost unconquerable. Love absorbs the hard blows of rigid fists; love surrounds, softens and tires violence and force. If you are confronted, bullied or intimidated while expressing your voice of reason, remember this protective strategy — be beautiful. Being love-filled and beautiful is one of the most powerful defenses that one can employ. Imagine that you are a beautiful and unique flower growing in life’s garden. Most people will not intentionally step on a beautiful flower. If you are walking through the garden and you see the beautiful flowers, you will walk around them to avoid destroying their delicate beauty. Even most “mean people” and “bad people,” otherwise known as people in pain and crisis, try to avoid the destruction of beauty by their own hand. They recognize beauty and secretly wish more of their own beauty was dominant. And even when the rare soul who enjoys trampling and crushing the beautiful flowers comes along, they quickly discover that there are many gardeners who tend life’s garden, and these gardeners do not like people stepping on the beautiful flowers. A beautiful person is protected like a beautiful flower in a garden, which many gardeners tend. You do not have to do anything to defend yourself in life; just be beautiful and life will defend you.”
What makes us family?
We all have a birth family the people who have the same name as you. A mother and father who brought you life But do you ever think about your friends being a part of your family? Or think about the kids who have been adopted the family they have are not the people who had them. But those children know that the people who love and support them, that is a family. The people who truly care about you are family! Its not just the people who have your last name, but the people who are understanding and love you the way you are!
This is a great article about people who have depression and how we could talk to them. Also ways to help us understand what they might be going through.
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/apr/07/not-talk-someone-with-depression
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