3 important words. That we all are thankful for.

I love you;  can be so hard to say at times.   We have all had that moment when someone we love so much that it is hard to find the right words to express how we feel.  Those three words are so important especially if they can change someone’s life;  its so easy to say.   But why when it’s needed the most, we can’t get them out;  or it feels like just saying I love you is not enough to really express how you feel? When you feel like there should be another way to let someone know how much you love them.  It feels like there is no way to show someone who means the world to you;  how you really feel.   But one day you will just get that feeling like they know and feel the same way about you!

putting ourselves first sometimes.

”If you’re struggling, you deserve to make self-care a priority. Whether that means lying in bed all day, eating comfort food, putting off homework, crying, sleeping, rescheduling plans, finding an escape through a good book, watching your favorite tv show, or doing nothing at all — give yourself permission to put your healing first. Quiet the voice telling you to do more and be more, and today, whatever you do, let it be enough. Feel your feelings, breathe, and be gentle with yourself. Acknowledge that you’re doing the best you can to cope and survive. And trust that during this time of struggle, it’s enough.” — Daniell Koepke The book: www.SimpleReminders.info

In life we are too busy trying to make everyone else happy and we could always take care for ourselves.   But we need to remember that helping others we first need to love who we are.

Today’s quote

“When we are deeply attached to someone, we start thinking about them all the time… there’s nothing more important to us then to be with them or to dream about them all the time… we wait for their messages and their calls as soon as they leave us… we always think of ways to make them happy… we want them to be with us in every way… physically, mentally and spiritually…….Neena Gupta”

 

Life is meant to be shared.

Life is about relationships, that is what can really change life for anyone.   Think about someone who has everything that one could buy,  but their life is full of work and things;  are they happy?   Not truly.  People need to have real relationships in their lives, not only to have someone to share the happiest moments with,  but also someone to make us feel special when life is hard.   We can not buy comfort,  we need to have someone who understands what we are going through,  someone who we know that no-matter where they are,  they will be there for us. Life is not meant to be without love,  it is the key to a happy life!

One of those message games

This is one of those message games.   I loved what it says I thought it would be a great uplifting message.

”This world needs as much kindness as it can get. I’m participating in the ‘Pay it Forward’ initiative: the first five people who comment on this status with “I’m in” will receive a surprise from me at some point during this year anything from a book, a ticket, something homemade, a postcard, absolutely any surprise! There will be no warning and it will happen when the mood comes over me and I find something that I believe would suit you and make you happy. These five people must make the same offer on their Facebook status Once my first five have “I’m in” I will forward this message to you privately so that you can copy and paste it, and put it in your status. (Don’t share it) so that we can form a web of connection of kindness. Let’s do more nice and loving things in 2015, without any reason other than to make each other smile and show that we think of each other. Here’s to a more enjoyable, friendly, and love filled year!.”

Thoughts of Depression

The more I learn about depression the more I feel like there is so much that I need to know. Depression is more of a disability than a sickness.  It takes control of everything in your body; where as a sickness is only in a few areas of the body mostly.   Depression for most people takes over the way people with depression sometimes think.  I think depression is not something that people who have it can get over;  they can feel better but I feel like depression is a sickness that is always there.  I wish for people who have depression to know that they are loved.

Life can get down

When life gets you down, what do you do? Who understands what is getting to you?  These questions we have all wondered about; when life seems too much to handle. It may seem like no one cares about what is getting to you, as if you are the only person that feels sadness. So you find some way to feel better, it may take the hurt away for a little while.  We need to talk to someone else that could help us, sometimes we can’t help ourselves when we find ourselves getting into bad habits just to feel good about yourself.  We all have hard times;  we have people who care for us to help when it’s really needed.

Daily devotion

What is a devotion to you?

To most people who go to church; its time with GOD.  But to people who feel that is not them,  think of something that you do each day to help you think in positive feeling.   Its what means the most to you;  for me its helping others, writing and knowing that I am able to inspire others.     I know devotion is something we all should try to have;  even if it something other than faith based.

We all have been in that time in our lives;  where thinking about just today is what is important?  When you are a time in life where trying to think about the next day,  month can feel overwhelming.   So take it day by day,  may be its a new start for you.  We need to have time where we don’t care about what will happen tomorrow.   We sometimes need to live in the moment,  life is a big what if!   But we forget that we may not always have tomorrow life is a gift.  So it’s going to know what you want your life to become;  but live in the moment!

The new year has started;  my family members are gone; I wish life did not lead our lives far away from the people we love the most.   Its hard to see that no-matter where we are in the world we are together.  I would think why couldn’t we live in one big continent so that we could just a drive a way.  But everyone moves and creates their our lives all the world;  which I guess can be great,  going to different countries and new experiences.  The more we can learn about other lifestyle the more we can understand how differences can be amazed may be we could see and understand how we are the same.   We may have family members all over the world but we always are together.