A life of love is?

We all have been at a place in our lifes where something so simple is the feeling that is the hardest to know what it is like.   That feeling would be love!   It is both easy and hard to give or receive .   When we are dealing with so much hard things;  you can feel alone as if no one will understand the feelings you have.   But if the people who you are closest to are there with you it seems easier, they might not understand everything you are going through but the support and love can mean so much.   The best way to help someone is just by loving them.

What is love? ‪#‎Livealifeoflovewithinyourself‬

I am going to do something different!   Love is my project it’s going to be what this blog will be about.  I have always wanted to find a way to help others,  I thought that I wanted to work with people who have depression but now I know that every issue that I hold close to my heart all have one thing in common is that love is needed!   I know I have been changing my goal for this blog around so much.   But I think I have finally know that everything can be done through love. I would like to have this website be a network for anyone to come here write to me about anything you are having a hard time with,  or if you just want to get inspired,  or even just feel loved!   I will also be writing about my life and the hard things I have to go through, also the great things!

”Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning to dance in the rain.”

Life is what you make it. You could be going through a hard time,  but there is always something that will make this time seem that much easier.

“Any darkness that surrounds you can only inspire the light to be that much brighter when it comes. Just hang on for that beautiful sunrise you so desperately deserve.”—Robert Clancy

the best gift

What is your favorite gift?
Think of every gift you have ever gotten

a gift does not have to be something,

it could be a person.
Friendship is the best gift!

Especially when you know it’s meant to be

and that friendship will always be!

Real strength is not giving up when everything in your life is hard. It is knowing that the day will come when the sun will shine on you.   What you go through to have a life you have always dreamed about,  life is hard but when you have the right support you can get through so much more than trying to do everything on your own.  “Strength doesn’t come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn’t.

”Love is always a demonstration – not just a set of words or a feeling.”

 Its what we do!  Its what I believe is all we need!
We never know the way things are are will change,  we should always make sure that the people who we love know how much they mean to us.  ”You love harder, laugh louder, live richer, and become more together than you could ever be by yourself.” Don’t take life for granter.


“Taking care of yourself is the most powerful way to begin to take care of others.” — Bryant McGill.  There have been times when we think it is bad to put ourselves first but we want to help others we need to love who we are first.   Having time to ourselves is a big key to our health, taking a day for yourself is necessary for you to be able to help others.

One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life. That word is Love. – Sophocles


I know this can happen,  I believe that if you have love you can get through anything!  Knowing that there is someone who is behind you can make all the difference.


Trying something new

I have been thinking about what I want to have this online community service, I wish that this part wasn’t so hard to get an idea and just stick with it. I wish that all the issues I want to make a difference in,  could somehow be under the same topic but they are not. The only thing that they have in common is love. Everything we go through could be helped with love and knowing that you are supported.  There is so much hurt and loneliness in the world, that I just want to fix it all by inspiring and just loving those I can!  All of my life I have wanted to make a difference in people’s lifes more than anything else I could do.  It seems like loving others should come first but the way we live its hard sometimes to put others first,  we try so hard to fit in that if there is something that we do different we get the looks like its weird to be who you are.   But aren’t we all different?  I know I can’t help everyone but I know there is a way to serve people who are going through a hard time and don’t know where to turn. I want to have this be a place where people can message me or write on the blog/facebook page when you just need someone to talk to.  If you want you can also email me at zvargues6@gmail.com.

”Share you light and SMILE today. You never know how much that may mean to someone. – Kriz”


”Friendship isn’t about who you’ve known the longest. It’s about who walked into your life, said “I’m here for you” and proved it.” This is true friendship, it is hard to find, but when you find a friend like that . Never let them go, and always let them know how much you care and them!


”Be thankful for what you have. You have no idea how many people would love to have what you’ve got.’

”Positivity is a choice. Is the glass half empty or half full? YOU get to make the call.”

”Work like you don’t need money, love like you’ve never been hurt, and dance like no one’s watching. -Unknown.”

I wish I could help everyone who is going through a hard time,  the people who feel alone; having the feeling that nobody cares for you does not help any.   You might think that being strong means dealing with the hard times on your own,  you are wrong.   Life can be hard,  but if you have support you can get through most things I’m not saying that the hard times won’t come, but the right support will make a difference in the times when you can’t do it alone.  I think depression can begin from being on your own so much; thinking that people in your life don’t want to help you or they don’t understand what it is that is getting you down. When we all go through times when love is needed more,  if you think about it you will see how much love can get you through the hardest times.   Just think about how you feel when someone texts you just to let you know that you are loved so much;  it can  change your whole day.






Friendship is so important,  family we know will always be by your side but having a friend who is always there is just as important.




What in your life keeps you going?

Who helps you get through the hard times?
The sun lights up the sky and brings us happiness,

but what or who helps you when you don’t think you can handle the hard times?

We all need to have something or someone who helps us get through the hard times!
Love is necessary for healing the brokenness we all feel at some point in life.

”Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all day. H Jackson Brown Jr”

All you need.

To anyone who is going through a hard time right now,  love will be able to get you through the hardships life will throw you.

”Being love-filled and beautiful is almost unconquerable. Love absorbs the hard blows of rigid fists; love surrounds, softens and tires violence and force. If you are confronted, bullied or intimidated while expressing your voice of reason, remember this protective strategy — be beautiful. Being love-filled and beautiful is one of the most powerful defenses that one can employ. Imagine that you are a beautiful and unique flower growing in life’s garden. Most people will not intentionally step on a beautiful flower. If you are walking through the garden and you see the beautiful flowers, you will walk around them to avoid destroying their delicate beauty. Even most “mean people” and “bad people,” otherwise known as people in pain and crisis, try to avoid the destruction of beauty by their own hand. They recognize beauty and secretly wish more of their own beauty was dominant. And even when the rare soul who enjoys trampling and crushing the beautiful flowers comes along, they quickly discover that there are many gardeners who tend life’s garden, and these gardeners do not like people stepping on the beautiful flowers. A beautiful person is protected like a beautiful flower in a garden, which many gardeners tend. You do not have to do anything to defend yourself in life; just be beautiful and life will defend you.”

What makes us family?

We all have a birth family the people who have the same name as you.   A mother and father who brought you life  But do you ever think about your friends being a part of your family?   Or think about the kids who have been adopted the family they have are not the people who had them.   But those children know that the people who love and support them,  that is a family.  The people who truly care about you are family!   Its not just the people who have your last name,  but the people who are understanding and love you the way you are!

This is a great article about people who have depression and how we could talk to them.  Also ways to help us understand what they might be going through.



Guide lines

I know I have to learn more about depression to be able to help more people.   This blog, the facebook and twitter are meant to be used as an outlet for people who just need someone to talk to.   I am looking for ideas of what you think I should write about.  I want to have a online community to help and inspire people who are going through depression or even if you are just needing someone to support you. There are so many people who feel as if there is no one who loves them, or even people who don’t think that they are worthy to be loved.   Because they may look different or act differently,  but we are all different.    My hope is to have this blog  become a network that could help so many people who are feeding alone, I also want to bring more awareness to depression;  love is necessary in this world.


Living a healthy lifestyle will only deprive you of poor health, lethargy, and fat. – Jill Johnson

Tomorrow is Easter, a time to spend with family and friends it is also a great time to be thankful for all we have.   In the faith its to remember what God did for us.  I would like to have tomorrow be another day to give thanks;  I know I don’t think about what and who I’m thankful for.  The people who help me to have a great life! I know I would not be the person I am I am today.   Life just knows what you need to help you become the person who you are meant to be.   I know it is not always going to be great,  but everything happens for a reason well I think,,.  In the hard times it’s not always easy to understand how this season is meant to help us. But each day there is something to be grateful for.  You might have more than someone else, I am very thankful for everything and everyone who is in my life!


“Be strong enough to stand alone, smart enough to know when you need help, and brave enough to ask for it.”
— Mark Amend

”I don’t need someone perfect. I need someone who loves me, respects me, cares for me and understands me.”

”You never lose friends. You just discover who your real friends are.”

” When you love what you have, you have everything you need.”

I got this from a friend,  I really think this is why I want to help others.   There are so many people who don’t have a lot of love or support in their lives, if we could show people that they are loved;  we could help end depression.

If you can wake up every morning loving what you do, help and inspire others around you to be better than they were yesterday then you know you’re doing something right in business and in life.

Be an inspiration. In this cruel world full of people who are only concerned with bringing others down with their judgments, words, and thoughts, we have to be one of the few who actually make an effort to inspire others, and make a difference by being the best motivators we can by simply being ourselves. We must all aspire to inspire, and aspire to create a better world by the time we are gone from it, and then it was when we first began it.

There are many ways to inspire others, but one good way is to actually follow your own dreams wholeheartedly, never give up, and be willing to bless others with tips and kind words that may help others to see that there is still much good around on this humungous planet. Be someone’s inspiration before you no longer have the chance to be, inspire the change in the world that will inspire more change in the world.”

“The best gift you can give is a hug; 1 size fits all.. and nobody minds if you give one back”

Being Different.

The word disability can have so many different meanings,  there is a person that you can see the disability and then there are hidden disabilities.   What does it really mean to have a disability?   Here is the dictionary defines a disability, ”the condition of being unable to do things in the normal way : the condition of being disabled”.  Although is anyone”so called normal’?  I think we all have some kind of disability that makes us special and needed.   So what if you can see that I have cerebral palsy I don’t care!   No one is normal I’m sorry to say,  but if you have needed help you have some kind of disability.   We all need help sometimes,  having a life without other people would be boring.  Life is meant to be shared,  having love in life makes all the hard times a little easier just knowing that someone is on your side.   Have you thought about that needing somebody could define it as having a disability?   Its not a big deal?   Yes I know what you are thinking, that I’m going crazy. But just think about it,  if you are different you are special.   So why do we look at being different in a bad way,  there are no two people who are the same.   That is what makes life so great!