Category Archives: my thoughts/poems

We all have been in that time in our lives;  where thinking about just today is what is important?  When you are a time in life where trying to think about the next day,  month can feel overwhelming.   So take it day by day,  may be its a new start for you.  We need to have time where we don’t care about what will happen tomorrow.   We sometimes need to live in the moment,  life is a big what if!   But we forget that we may not always have tomorrow life is a gift.  So it’s going to know what you want your life to become;  but live in the moment!

The new year has started;  my family members are gone; I wish life did not lead our lives far away from the people we love the most.   Its hard to see that no-matter where we are in the world we are together.  I would think why couldn’t we live in one big continent so that we could just a drive a way.  But everyone moves and creates their our lives all the world;  which I guess can be great,  going to different countries and new experiences.  The more we can learn about other lifestyle the more we can understand how differences can be amazed may be we could see and understand how we are the same.   We may have family members all over the world but we always are together.

This year is over. Was it a great year, what are you are going to do next?  What will next year bring you?  Would you want to do something that will change someone’s life? I have never been  one to have a new years resolution, but this time I think I have one, its more of a goal than a resolution. But I want to get my writing out so much more, there are so many people who feel hurt, alone and brokenhearted. I know I can’t help everyone,  but I know there is a way to inspire and just let others feel cared for.   This is going to be my mission for this year to get my dream/hope to be real, facebook/this blog, my writing to help others!

Time to share with loved ones is the Christmas present!  Life should have this feeling the whole year not just one day or week;  but each day!   Each day we can make someone’s day.  Its not that hard,  people out there are feeling alone and brokenhearted why?  We could smile at someone just passing by us;  or if you know a friend needs love, someone just to listen and to let them know that they have somebody that will always be there no-matter what time they need you.   Christmas for most people is the gifts and we forget that love is the gift that is needed!

”Never give up on someone that you can’t go a full day without thinking about.”  This is so true; if there is someone who somehow everyday comes to your mind,  never give up them.  You might not know how much that person needs you.   Love is so easy to give; but so many people don’t have it in their lives. There is a reason why you think about that person everyday, think of it as they need to feel loved.  If you know someone that needs help or love;  there is so much that you can do to show them you are there for them.   It shouldn’t matter if they reply one day you will know how much you just saying how much they mean to you how much it made a difference in their life knowing that there is someone that cares for them.

”Love makes you vulnerable and susceptible to emotional paroxysm.When you love someone you give them every bit of you slowly and slowly.You share yourself bit by bit .You give them your whole complete self..you give them your heart, your soul, your mind and your body and everything else about your being..You love them from breath to breath, from thought to thought and from moment to moment. But when they leave they take your best part with them and that is your soul and they leave you breathless, thoughtless and lifeless.They just leave you shattered with all your bits and pieces but you cannot gather them and fix them back like they were fixed before and then you are a changed person.You are left so broken that you can never be the same again..NEVER…Aarti Khurana”

I saw this quote and thought I had to share.

Life is not about giving up, but you are in a hardship in life sometimes you can’t see any way out.   There will be people who will either try everything they can to help you get where you want to get in life; or there will be others that will not care to help you.   Or even there are people who will want to help you,  but they may not just not know how to help you.  On the other hand;  there are might be some people who you want to help.  Sometimes people might not want help;  so the best thing you could do is just by letting them how you care for them.

Why is there sadness?
Why can’t we all see that we are all the same?

Look past the difference,

And you will see that we are equal?

Little bit of love can go a long way.
Hope that better times will come.
Do what you can to help others.
This season is for giving and hope.

Look around

Look at the people who mean the most to you.

Does it matter how much you see them?
Or does  the time you have together matter more?
Remember the good times you had together

And know that no one can take that moment away from you

Self confidence in the most important person;  YOU.   Today it is easy to think it the way others see you is more important than how you see yourself. The world is full of differences so why do we care so much about how others see us?  So what if you think differently,  so what you look,  talk differently.   Its your life, do what you love?   Make yourself happy about you!    Today there are so many people who feel hurt and unloved just because of the way they are, than can turn into someone not caring about the way they look; if nobody tells you that you are beautiful or that you’re amazing;  you will do anything you can feel that you are loved .  Its so important for everybody to feel like they are wanted loved and to know that there is no one like you.  Sometimes it’s ok to put yourself first; do what makes you happy!   Don’t let others put you down!

How can you love someone who is far away?

Who you know needs your support,

Who has been through a lot.

A person who you know you could be there for.

In life we came across people that something team us

they they needs a true relationship.
Who do you know that needs you?

Everything in life happens for a reason even the people who you hold close! There are some people who you just know they were placed in your life a reason: although you may not understand why. You just have a special connection, which can not be broken! True friendships are amazing and last forever . Friends are the family you get to choose. Never let go of that kind of friendship. 

Who are you?

Do you know what you are meant to do?
Is your daily life what you had hoped for?

If you don’t know;

 it’s not that’s ok
Does anyone know or have everything they wanted?  No

do you know you are not alone?

Each day is a gift,  we can change the world or the way people view differences.
We all have been down,  depressed.   So why keep it in?  Talk to someone, don’t hide it.
It could help!

What do you want your life to look like?

Is it what you had hoped it would be?

”’Is there someone in your life that may need a little support. Someone that may need to hear the words ‘Are you ok, I am here for you’ Who can you ask today ?”’  Let’s try something new till the end of the year; each day try to talk to somebody who you could use a friend.  Someone who is alone,  today we are so worried about fitting in that we don’t want to be with people who are different even if they are the ones who could really your friendship.  There are too many people who have depression because nobody will take the time to listen to them; let them know that they are loved, they have support which everyone needs.

Depression is a sickness yes do you think it medicine is the only way to cure it?   Do you think ever goes away for good?     Here are my thoughts to these questions;  first medicine can help desperation but it is not the only way to cure it.   Supporting and loving them will make a big difference that goes for any kind of mental sickness.   Support for anyone is the key to living an happy life,  really think about it; if you don’t feel loved but you have everything money can get but if you don’t have love in your life you will not have true happiness.

World’s best feelings

• First time being called as dad or mom.

• First kiss from your loved one.

• The moment you exchange the rings during wedding.

• Your baby smiling at you.

• Realizing that you have become grandpa or grandma.

• The moment you are proposing your loved one/ your loved one proposing you.

• Your friend holding your hands and saying “everything will be fine”.

• Your sibling wiping off your tears and giving you a big hug.

• The moment you receive flowers for the first time from the person you love.

• First love.

• Last day of your school/college life.

• When you receive your First pay.

• Last kiss when you are in deathbed.

The sun lights up the darkness,  relationships can help someone out of the darkness.   How can we not see a little bit of love, could save someone’s life?

Relationships are that important!

Love why do I write about that one word so much?   I believe love is the one thing we want more than anything else.   Love could fix anything hard times,  when life is feels as if everything is coming down on you;  if you don’t have love in your life you are not going to be happy,  you may think that there are other ways other than love and there; but love can get you true happiness.

”’Don’t worry about what others think, This is YOUR life, live it the way you want to.”’

”Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing. -Mother Teresa”

”’It’s important to give it all you have while you have the chance. – Shania Twain”

”’A good life is when you smile often, dream big, laugh a lot, and realize how blessed you are for what you have.”

What makes you happy?

Where do you go to think?
Where do you go to get away to have some you time?
Do you know that you are special,  loved and wanted?

Today’s thought. Topic – how to cope with loneliness?

Think about this topic; what are your thoughts. ”In an ideal world we would all respect each other. When I give respect to what goes on in my own mind..the miracle is I see everything in the world differently. I begin to see that I know nothing about others, but I do know that I want peace of mind more than anything else and if I let go of my expectations of others then I have peace.
~Eileen Dielese

There is someone you can help

Someone who needs you

Give that person hope

Strength,  courage,  hope and

Even one as simple as just needing somebody to love them!

why is there so much hurt in the world today?  We all have been through some kind of hurt.   People see someone who is different, that is all people can see that someone is different, it doesn’t matter if it’s little different;  so what does it really matter how different we are .  Does it? People make fun of others who are different;  why?  Difference is what makes us special .  Everyone of us is special.

Who is a hero?

Is a hero someone who fights for freedom or can heroes also be the person who gives their life up to help others?   Being a hero means more than going to war; though it is a big sacrifice to leave the life you to go somewhere with not knowing if you will get the life you once had. Someone who has always put others first is whom I would think of a hero as well.

Life is nothing if you have nobody to share with.   No-matter if the relationship is just a close friend, any kind of relationship is important!  We all need to have someone who we can let anything out knowing that person will never let you down.  When life really has you down having that friendship can help just to have someone to get you thought it.

Some people who have depression just need to feel loved and supported. Having a friend that they know they can always turn to who will be there to talk anytime.

Whether it’s by accident or it was fate,

this friend becomes real and truly a gift.

Friendship that could change us,

a friendship that can go through challenges,

long distance but still have a strong friendship.

Nothing has changed!

Nothing could could come between us!

”The Law of Attraction/ The Secret

”I think of you day and night. All my dreams are about you. All my fantasies are about you. You are in all my love poems and all my love songs. I feel you in every love story I read. I can never stop loving you and no situation in my life can stop me from loving you. If I get a billion dollars I would build a dream house for you and me. If I get to go on a tour around the world I would take you with me to fall in love with you in every nook and corner of the world.. If I could have a superpower I would time freeze the moment when you kiss me. If I get to time travel I would take you with me in my past lives and fall in love with you all over again. AND even if I die I will be born again to love you all over again…. Aarti Khurana” 

Don’t we all wish that this kind of love wasn’t so hard to find? I am thinking about this as we should have this kind of love and support for everybody in our lives.

Hi Everyone,  as you know I have started a group for live a life of love within yourself; I’m hoping that the group will let my followers feel comfortable about talking to me and or other people who in this group.     If you don’t feel comfortable, you can send me a facebook message.   I really would love to get my idea of helping people thought depression or even people who just need someone to talk to.  I know this might sound kind of crazy;  but this is my dream to help those in this world who feel alone,  worthless,  hopeless and unloved.   This is my mission,  I want to give back hope and I want to show everyone that love is everything.

Just a quick post;  I am working on a facebook group for me to better help others.   So if you are on facebook please look up the group and let me know what you think!   Thanks.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/335116573314607.

”Nobody has a perfect life. Everybody has their own problems. Some people just know how to deal with it in a better way.”

Life is not perfect but it is mostly about how you look at it that could help you get through some of the hardest days!   The way you view life can help you get through anything.   Think about what you have and anthers are fighting to get their next meal,.  There are many things that we can be thankful for each day even if the day is hard!

Time charges everything,  no-matter if it’s good or hard to deal with .  But if you have love things does not seem as bad it is what helps the hard times easier to handle.   We all have those times where nothing seems to go right;  for some of us it’s easier than others.  That doesn’t mean everyone of us needs to have someone who can give us love and comfort when we need it the most.

Life is  meant to be shared with those you love.

, ”I offer you peace. I offer you love. I offer you friendship. I see your beauty. I hear your need. I feel your feelings. My wisdom flows from the Highest Source. I salute that Source in you. Let us work together for unity and love.

~ Gandhi”

If you own and accept who you are, even if it’s a different version than yesterday, other people will accept you too. -Kate Northrup

”“Disability is not a brave struggle or ‘courage in the face of adversity.’ Disability is an art. It’s an ingenious way to live.”
– Neil Marcus’

I have Cerebral palsy; ”Cerebral palsy is a term which encompasses a set of neurological conditions that cause physical disability in human development – they affect the brain and nervous system. The word cerebral refers to the area in the brain that is affected, while palsy means complete or partial muscle paralysis, frequently accompanied by loss of sensation and uncontrollable body movements or tremors. Cerebral means related to the brain or cerebrum. Cerebrum is a Latin word meaning “brain; top of the head, skull”. In the English language the cerebrum is the anterior (front) portion of the brain consisting of two hemispheres; it is the dominant part of the brain in humans.”   I don’t let CP control my life, I am a so called normal life.  I have been through a lot in my life and to those times I have a life of my own,  this is why I want to write to try to help others!

You can’t really begin to appreciate life until it has knocked you down a few times. You can’t really begin to appreciate love until your heart has been broken. And you can’t really begin to appreciate happiness until you’ve known sadness. Once you’ve walked through the valley, the view at the mountaintop is breathtaking. ~Susan Gale.

In my life there are so many people who have made an impact in my life.  This one person who I have been so lucky to get to call her my special friend  Knowing her;  when she reads this she is going to get me for this but I wanted to do something special for her.   She is the kind of person that will be there by my side for anything if she could;  you know when you meet someone and you just know that you are meant to be friends!   I don’t know how or how we got to be so close friends but I know this I’m never letting her go!  She gave me this book named “footprints”, after we heard a song called “footprints in the sand”. On days I’m down or just when I need to get my mind off things I read it. The footprints poem is one of my favorites.. Here it is; “One night I dreamed a dream. I was walking along the beach with my Lord. Across the dark sky flashed scenes from my life. For each scene, I noticed two sets of footprints in the sand. One belonging to me and one to my Lord. When the last scene of my life shot before me I looked back at the footprints in the sand and to my surprise I notices that many times along the path of my life there was only one set of footprints. I realized that this was at the lowest and saddest times of my life. This always bothered me and I questioned the Lord about my dilemma. ‘Lord, you told me when I decided to follow You. You would walk and talk with me all the way. But I’m aware that during the most troublesome times of my life there is only one set of footprints. I just don’t understand why, when I needed You most You leave me’ He whispered ‘my precious child, I love you and will never leave you never, ever, during your trials and testings. When you saw only one set of footprints it was then that I carried you’.”

Some days can be hard

what do you when life does not go as you had hoped?

Do you know who to talk to when life is not going your way?

You can also write out your feelings

Don’t keep them in.

Hope is knowing that you are not alone

You have the support that you need.

I would like to tell you my story. At six months old I was diagnosed with Cerebral Palsy. The doctor informed my parents about a special “home” that could take care of me. I probably would never recognize anybody, talk or even hold my head… they were to concentrate on my two teenage brothers. But my family did not follow his advice. They worked with me, fussed over my simple achievements and encouraged me never to give up. My brothers showed me off with pride…Yes, there are many things that I will never be able to do. My speech is not always clear, my arms tend to have a mind of their own and yes, Life can be hard but if you give it your best you will be surprised with what you may achieve. Everybody is different! Even people without disabilities can’t do everything. So, I look for what I am good at and make the best of it.I guess it is easier to just use the disability as an excuse and not to try to achieve. But that is not how to LIVE LIFE, that is to just exist. I don’t expect to be treated differently. Actually I DON’T WANT to be treated differently. I had to fight for the right to be allowed to attend regular classes. Why? I do not think with my legs! But when I went on stage to get my “real” high school diploma all those months of struggle became history.Even though I have a disability it often makes it hard to do things on my own my friends and family help me understand that I can do anything I set my mind to, including my faith . My faith in god has always helped me realize that I am normal although I talk funny. When I have a day where my body tends to have a mind of its own moving fast I like to think of it as dance moves that come natural . People with disabilities deserve to be allowed to achieve their best like anybody else, whatever that might be. But… like everybody else they must earn rights and respect! Do not give up. Look for the rainbow after every storm! Make the best of your LIFE!

”Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing. -Mother Teresa”. I wish there were ways to help everyone that I meet; you can’t work through no-matter how much you think you have moved on. People grief differently, we need to have somebody to talk to. But I have learned that sometimes you just give someone a smile and the love will make help more than anything else.

”No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted. -Aesop”
Kindness is important!  Today we don’t think about this; to help someone who is in need; all you need to do is let them know that you are there for them whenever.   And also that they are loved.

Have you ever loved someone so much it hurts?
Love can be hard sometimes, but most of the time
Love is one of thing that can get through the hardest times.
This life can get so busy
but let’s remember to always show loved ones;
how much they are loved!

Life is full of differences,  everyone is created difficulty!  Then why are we all afraid of differences.   I have a disability which I didn’t care that I am different.   I know it’s not always easy to be the one always left out because people don’t think we all have that in common; but if people could see that we are all different , it would make life so much easier if we don’t understand that being is amazing.  So how can we all work together?

”Disability is the consequence of an impairment that may be physical, cognitive, mental, sensory, emotional, developmental, or some combination of these. A disability may be present from birth, or occur during a person’s lifetime.”  You might be wondering how I can talk about these two very different topics in one blog.  Well I think that depression is also a kind of disability;  there are so many different kinds that we realized it sometimes. We all have some kind of disability;  we need people around us who can support and love us the way we are.  Life of today wants us to believe that being different is bad as if something is wrong with you.   Have you ever thought about what being different means to you or maybe even to everyone ?  Does it mean having a disability or that you think differently from your friends?   Well here is what I think about disabilities if we are different from each other and having a disability means being disabled then doesn’t that mean we all have some kind of disability!