Category Archives: about Zara

”When you love someone from the deepest pit of your heart and soul then even your biggest conflicts, your worst misunderstandings or your silliest fights can be solved without saying a single word but with JUST ONE SOULFUL HUG…Aarti Khurana..   – See more at:”

I absolutely love this video. It says exactly what I want to do. I think everybody is equal and love can help anyone get through hard times.




I have decided that every once in a few days I will write something about me.  That way my followers can get to know me a little more.

As I said yesterday I have a disability; called Cerebral Palsy there are so many different kinds of Cerebral palsy,  I like to think of mine as the crazy kind!   There are some days I think that my body has taken over and even if I think of what I want to do,  my mind and my body are not on the same page.  I use a power chair to get around, I need a lot of help, from getting out of bed to eating. I am happy with who I am,  but I have been through my share of hard times. Who hasn’t had hard times?   Being different can sometimes be hard to fit in,  coming from south Africa and having a disability made it hard to fit in; in high school.  I had some amazing times and people who still today we are best friends.   Those friends are what helped me get through some of the hardest times, they also had apart of why I want to help others!


As I am trying to start up a network to help those who has or depression, one of my best friends has told me that I need to do an video  interview on someone who has been through depression.  If anyone is willing to do something like that please let me know. I am still working out the questions that you would answer, I just wanted to get the idea out there.

I have cerebral palsy which for me it effects all my physical movements and needs,so because it’s hard to be understood to others who don’t know me or what my disability is; I decided that I can help others through a network and writing. I know I have a lot to learn about depression, but I feel like this is what I was meant to do help others, I love it!

This is my hope/idea for this blog I would love to get to have a conversation with someone who might be going through a hard time; through email messages or some kind of chat. I have always felt a calling to help others or just be a friend to someone who feels like they don’t have anybody to talk to.


Changing times

There are times in life where the way you view things change;  and I think I am going through that time.   I have been taking this class that I think has something to do with this season in my life,  its still new for me;  but I know some changes can be great.   So all that to say;  I may be changing the way I want to take my blog. I am still trying to think of how it will look,  but I still want to help and support others it may include people who have a disability.   I will keep all my followers updated as I have more ideas.